While the gym was once a place I hated, feared and mocked in my years of addiction, it has since become a sanctuary that has taught me many of the most important life skills and been a huge aid in my ongoing recovery.
In a world of intellectual smart-asses, the gym teaches you grit, determination, and humility.
These characteristics far outweigh the intellectual snobbishness I had before entering the gym.
Being a smart-ass isn’t everything in this world.
In fact, it doesn’t count for much at all.
“Lifting heavy is so effective because it drags you kicking and screaming to the very place spiritual teachers insist you should be: The Present.”
The qualities the gym demands are not easy to come by in our vacuous world of hysterical outrage, bubblegum pop and free to access pornography.
Where addiction fetishes the lazy, slovenly and critical aspects of our personalities, the gym is the perfect antidote.
Below are three great reasons why you need to face the fear and get jacked:
1: Lifting Destroys Anxiety and Depression
More recent studies have shown how the same is true for anxiety.
Yet in my personal experience, lifting heavy is so effective because it drags you kicking and screaming to the very place spiritual teachers insist you should be: The Present.
When you’re lifting a PB there’s no way you cannot be intensely focussed.
You don’t have time to wallow in the past or fret about the future.
There’s a BIG INSANE weight you have to deal with right fricking now instead!
This is a secret that’s fostered on you once you’ve entered the gym.
The experience is as much mental as it is physical.
In fact, it’s more mental than physical.
This is because the thing that you’re training the most is in the mind.
You’re telling the internal wimp to STFU.
You’re telling the inner victim that you won’t bow to his intoxicating temptation of righteous indignation.
Most importantly, you are transcending the borders of what your mind thinks your body is capable of.
This shocks your whole being into an active growth mindset.
2: It Teaches You Good Morals
As stated in the opening to this piece, we live in an era of mass-media, political hysteria, and outrage and highly, highly sexualized music and culture.
We simultaneously exist in the best and worst era of humanity.
We’ve never known luxury like it, yet the produce of our most prominent culture has never been so empty, meaningless and manipulative.
Every pop star sells some form of sex or sings about how much money they have.
Pornography is a stronger presence in most boys’ lives than their fathers.
In the above video, Harley St Therapist Mark Dempster explains the problem of modern pornography
The worship of fame and money belies a deeper obsession with ego-based narcissism and worship of the self.
“By sticking to a routine you get the mental and physical results, but you get something much bigger: The fundamental lesson of how to approach life.”
There is no doubt that you find this emptiness in the gym itself.
Almost all gyms pump out driving, unoriginal pop rhythms that have the same effect on the human soul as pornography on sex.
Further, many men inhabit the gym to have the sculpted physiques of plastic soldiers to show off to Barbie dolls on a Saturday night.
The mantra of the age is to drive out the deep, powerful spirit of the ages and replace it with bright lights, nudity, and short-term marketable relief.
Yet, beyond this nauseating confusion is the true meaning of the gym.
The place where the most basic and essential life lesson is taught that schools and universities have given up on:
That short term solutions bring more pain.
Just as the use of alcohol and intoxicants never truly worked in my addiction, any short term solution to a long term life problem is fated to destroy human beings.
This is a lesson directly taught in the gym.
If you want to get confident, you have to go and stand with jacked guys when you’re scrawny.
If you want to get a good shape you have to put in the work.
Even when you’re tired, depressed or lazy.
By sticking to a routine you get the mental and physical results, but you get something much bigger: The fundamental lesson of how to approach life.
3: It Connects You With Masculine Energy
Modern life is complicated.
Bills, relationships, addictions, trends, friends, and jobs all pile a psychic weight on us.
Lifting heavy things is simple.
As well as allowing you to escape the madness of modern life, lifting also connects us with a deeper instinct.
“Where addiction confuses a man about what he is and what he wants, the gift of hard physical work is mental clarity and certainty.”
That instinct is that of good, hard physical work.
We have evolved to strive physically.
Because of this, it is in our DNA to feel satisfied after hard work.
Our forefathers learned by repeated experience that the end result of physical work was a satisfying result.
Whether that result was winning a fight, building a house or catching dinner, we have an inbuilt reward system that produces satisfaction after hard work.
The gym provides us with a place to restore this vital energy in us.
Not only does it awaken a visceral, powerful force, but it provides an insurance policy against the confusion of our times and our sense of self.
Where addiction confuses a man about what he is and what he wants, the gift of hard physical work is mental clarity and certainty.